Attachment , Anxiety , Past , Burnout , Loneliness and Letting Go

Attachment isn't meant for anxious people . Love isn't meant for anxious people . Don't take me wrong . No doubt , These are beautiful feelings but only if there is proper reciprocation . Else it may turn out to be a nightmare , a huge trigger for anxiety especially when one is unequipped with handling such strong emotions. People talk about letting go of past . You can't let go of past in case of one's personality or his/her emotional abilities. Past is the mother of present . Past has created the personality ( anxious or whatever ) you are talking to right now . It took years of conditioning to get the present so called " self " whom other people get to know. Coming back to anxiety and attachment , past plays a significant role in your thought process , the way of handling the emotional feelings , related to one's attachment . His/ her history moulds one in a certain way that is not visible to anyone but to only the subject . Comparatively , anxious ones lack that required trick leading to emotional turmoil ,restlessness and an overwhelming state. There may be even increased sense of lonelinesswhich seems weird as there should be opposite. Adding to this misery , Anxiety gives constant worry abour future , making one to lose touch with present partially .It may finally lead to burnout , if not properly taken cared of or still left reciprocated . Burnout is the exhaustion , the breaking point of this vicious cycle of desires and increased hunger of being attended to / cared or wanted . This Burnout can be ugly or may sometimes carve a new way out which is 'Letting Go'. Letting Go isn't always the choice but a necessity for survival , by putting down the burden of "wanting" or freeing yourself from the trap of "possiblity of happening" .